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How Can I Make My Ex Boyfriend Speak To Me After Break Up
Written by Kim Sanchez   
Sunday, 17 January 2010 08:55
After having a bad break up with her ex boyfriend, my friend tried calling her ex boyfriend to patch things up. However, her ex boyfriend does not answer her calls. She has been calling him several times even leaving a message to call her back so that the two of them could talk but to no avail. So my friend asked for my advice on how her boyfriend would respond to her calls so that the two of them could talk properly and make up.
by KimSanchez


After having a bad break up with her ex boyfriend, my friend tried calling her ex boyfriend to patch things up. However, her ex boyfriend does not answer her calls. She has been calling him several times even leaving a message to call her back so that the two of them could talk but to no avail. So my friend asked for my advice on how her boyfriend would respond to her calls so that the two of them could talk properly and make up.

Sometimes, it is really hard to make someone talk to you or answer your calls if you are at fault or when something goes wrong in the relationship. Your boyfriend might be hurting too much to make any move. But this is not a hopeless case. There are things that you could do to make him speak to you.

There first thing you need to avoid is stalking. Stalking is not only impractical it is also very creepy. This will eventually turn him off even more. You will only make him feel trapped and this will make him push you away further. I suggest that you give him the time to heal and think about everything.

The second thing that you need to do is to leave curiosity driven messages on his voice mail or mobile phone. Do not go in circles with your message. Get to the point and rehearse your voice mail as much as you can. Do not just act on emotions or whims. You have to appeal to his logical side rather than appealing to his emotions. If he does not respond just give him time to think for himself then.

If he still does not call you, then that is the time to resort to other measures. You can ask the help of a common friend close to the two of you to help you with him. Use your friend's phone to make a call, and he will definitely answer it. It's also good to make your friend talk to him first before giving to you the phone. At the very least, your friend could make a little explanation about what you're doing.

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